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Communion – Grey Brown
Posted in family, Imagery, tagged Communion, family, Grey Brown, imagery, nature photography, NC Poets, poetry, Redhawk Publications, Southern writing on June 19, 2026| Leave a Comment »
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[ 3 poems by Grey Brown ]
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Costume
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I am five, maybe six,
and my mother
is taking pictures of me
in my costume.
I stand statue still
before the hearth,
sneakers on,
plastic pumpkin in hand,
ready.
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I have chosen a princess dress
and a witch hat.
I like the way I look in purple
and pink, but I need the hat.
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My teenage brother walks by
and announces that
I cannot be both
a princess and a witch.
Because of the hat
I am bold and remind him
that he is too old for Halloween
and that no matter what I am,
witch, princess or sister,
he will not be getting candy.
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My mother does not say a word
but cocks an eyebrow
the way she does
when she is reading a good book.
Then, as a princess,
I bow.
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Grey Brown
from Communion, Redhawk Publications, The Catawba Valley Community College Press. Hickory, NC; © 2026
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On Belief
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My daughter learns of constellations,
the unfinished dot-to-dot
of Andromeda and Cassiopeia,
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the poor mother and baby bears
headless, missing paws.
She dreams of planets
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and their rings,
adoring moons
that spin and sing.
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Stargazing, we find our way
to a dark, empty field
to view the comet.
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My daughter imagines
bold strokes, a ball of light
with a vivid, streaming tail,
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cartoon crisp and lively colored.
But she finds only
a blurred hairball of dust and ice.
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more chaos than divine creation,
at best, the whorled thumbprint
of some god, preoccupied.
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Grey Brown
from Communion, Redhawk Publications, The Catawba Valley Community College Press. Hickory, NC; © 2026
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I Hate October
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I just seem to lose family and friends
as the light angles down—
my grandmother to colon cancer,
the neighbor’s daughter
who just overdosed,
my dearest friend tucked in a shawl,
the book falling from his hand.
They all seem to let go,
as daylight wanes
and a cool hand disturbs the earth.
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I talk more to my mother
at this time of year,
but she is of little help,
so bad at living herself,
her drinking and smoking.
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She passed in the fall
of her fifty-ninth year.
She was an ardent fan
of witches and ghosts,
pumpkins and gourds.
I still decorate for her
trying to do my best
with the darkness.
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Grey Brown
from Communion, Redhawk Publications, The Catawba Valley Community College Press. Hickory, NC; © 2026
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Last week I caught a portion of an interview with an avant garde artist describing his latest installation. The interviewer asked what message the artist intended his art to convey. The artist replied, “A bad poem descends into meaning.” Well, that is certainly one statement that has opted not to descend into meaning. What is a good poem, then? Incomprehensible?
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Maybe a good poem does hold meaning, but close, cupped in its hands. The reader, craning for a glimpse, is encouraged to open his or her own hands and discover what meaning may be found within. The good poem is not a meal cut into bits for a toothless child; it is an enticement for the complex palate. And reading a poem is no dry exercise in wheedling out the poet’s intent; it is savoring, experiencing. The poem doesn’t descend into meaning. The reader does.
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Grey Brown’s poems in Communion, taken one by one, do not descend – they hover. Each one flashes into existence, the sudden arrival of a hummingbird. It pauses in flight and for a moment we can count every exquisite feather of its crimson gorget, but its wings are still whirring too fast to see. And then the next poem arrives. Line by line, page by page, the reader begins to perceive what is cupped in the poet’s hands. A sacrament that promises grace and life? A keen blade to mingle the blood of both reader and writer alike?
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The book’s introduction defines communion as the sharing or exchange of intimate thoughts and feelings, especially when the exchange is on a mental or spiritual level. These poems are precisely such a serial exchange, linked in sequence of unfolding awareness, joined together not only by the progression of years and generations but also by the uncertainty, disappointment, and revelation that are inherent in one’s personal search for meaning. With the turn of each page, I find myself reflecting on my own fears and failures. Is there any hope for salvation? The poet grants a glimpse: none of us ever really survive, / but we get by.
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Grey Brown (Chapel Hill, NC) is the founder of the Literary Arts Program of the Health Arts Network at Duke and served as director for 25 years. Communion is her second full length poetry collection and is available from Redhawk Publications.
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Spirit and Element — Joseph Bathanti
Posted in family, Imagery, tagged family, imagery, joseph, Joseph Bathanti, LSU Press, nature photography, NC Poets, Southern writing, Steady Daylight on June 12, 2026| 2 Comments »
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[ two poems by Joseph Bathanti ]
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The Cellar
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When my sister talked to boys on the phone,
she stretched the cord down the cellar stairs
into the dark and whispered.
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My parents didn’t like her down there, barefoot
on cold concrete, without a light,
talking to a boy. We had to pretend
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nothing at all odd about it –
supper on the table, sacramental
supper, the sacred daily rite
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of our commingled lives interrupted.
We couldn’t even mention Marie
in the cellar, exchanging on the phone
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whatever it might have been, at that moment,
with a nameless boy.
Everything had to be as if it weren’t happening;
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that was how one got through things.
My parents would have punished me
had they known what I was thinking.
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I was not at all curious about them.
But I often wondered about Marie,
sixteen, 1966: Johnson’s first term
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after the assassination,
the year I started remembering
with dreadful precision.
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My father taught her to drive
our blue Belair. Riding shotgun,
I adored that Chevy, my sister behind the wheel,
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windows down, her long hair blowing.
I punched radio buttons, station to station,
lashing music over us, like I was typing her story,
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as she sang from memory, and I mumbled.
Without even realizing, she shaved the hairpin
on Mellon Terrace while I held my breath
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and tried to get it all down with speed
and truth before 1967 showed up
and she left for college at Slippery Rock.
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I loved her secret life,
living all the yearned for alone,
in the cellar: with the coal furnace,
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copper pipes weaving in and out
of the ancient rafters that held up the house,
my father’s tools, our sleds,
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shelves of empty jars, canned hams,
fruit cocktail—statues and crucifixes
my mother thought a little much for upstairs.
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In her nightgown, Mother washed clothes
down there, where my father shaved,
our retreat when we craved solitude,
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in it very center a drain
that flowed to the city sewer,
then the Allegheny, west on the Ohio,
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all the way to California.
Marie ascended to us, from the cellar,
changed, all of us changed.
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What had she and that boy talked of?
We made the Sign of the Cross,
said Grace, and ate supper.
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Joseph Bathanti
from Steady Daylight, Louisiana State University Press, Baton Rouge, LA; © 2026 by Joseph Bathanti
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Right Guard
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As he aged, my father dwindled,
not in stature—though he grew smaller
as elders must—but rather in estate.
He never required much,
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insisted on giving things away.
What am I going to do with all this?
Suddenly I had his shirt,
wristwatch, hammer and plane—
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his car keys and driver’s license
when the time came. I arrived,
the night of his death, and stole a moment alone in his room
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at The Pines, a name too green
and pulsing, filled with trees—
near infuriating—for a tomb.
My mother had died a year earlier.
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To save money to pass along to me
and my sister, my father requested
a move to an efficiency—a monk’s cell.
At heart, he was an ascetic.
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I sat on the edge of his small bed,
where he’d perched that morning—
September 3,
his 59th wedding anniversary,
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my mother gone a year—to quell his vertigo,
hands folded, his dawn office,
before launching his day.
He witnessed the first rind
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of sabbath sun cross the sash.
Song sparrows chanted Asperges me.
Then, prepared, he rose.
I stood and paced behind his shade,
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gauging where, in the modest span
between his bedclothes and coffeepot,
he decided to join my mother—
privately, no announcement, illness,
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deathwatch. No priest.
The attention would have embarrassed him.
His only flourish was the white pressed
handkerchief on him at all times.
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Perhaps he glimpsed his fetch
or, responsive to my mother’s whims,
her beckoning;
or his own mother, whom, at five,
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he’d lost to childbirth.
Given neither to signs nor bodement,
never mysterious, but like us all
who parse life step by step,
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my father kept a secret life
he alone entered—nothing terrible,
or even curious—a silent chamber
he had the wisdom, the courage,
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to leave locked, the key hidden—
though he had little use for metaphor.
A millwright, a steelman,
he discovered the ladled heat,
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and molten pour, the union shop,
a practice he abided and died for.
What was there left of his to take?
He’d already given me everything.
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I wandered into the tiny bathroom.
Stationed on the shelf above the sink
stood a can of Right Guard,
the only deodorant my dad used—
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Original, of course, Sport:
the logo stick figure, in full throttle,
bolting from the blocks.
I grabbed it and pressed the actuator.
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The valve hissed and hung a familiar
incensed mist. Out of it,
like a genie summoned from its lamp,
appeared my father.
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Joseph Bathanti
from Steady Daylight, Louisiana State University Press, Baton Rouge, LA; © 2026 by Joseph Bathanti
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spirit and element, inseparably connected, receiveth a fullness of joy;
Doctrine and Covenants 90:5e (1833)
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What was there left of his to take?
He’d already given me everything.
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Elemental – reduced to its essential form, pure, vital, a foundation upon which everything else can be built. Joseph Bathanti’s poems in Steady Daylight. Here in a few words and lines is a life; here are many lives, family, community. Here is a life’s span, from unremembered ancestors through all the days on earth to gathering in the celestial. Here is school and church and baseball, steel mill and pearl-handled basting knife, scungilli and sfogliatelle, the lingering perfume of de Nobili cigars and incense of Right Guard. Every image is pure. Every moment is alive. Read these lines and live.
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When Joseph Bathanti sits down with pen and paper the universe stretches, edges itself up around him, and words become its center. Some poetry is music but these poems are whispered secrets, thwacks on the back of the head, huge smothering hugs from floral aunts, hundred pound hods of mortar. Steady Daylight is a world that has completely drawn me into itself. As I read I become the boy, the man, the child of mother and father. The simplest daily routine and the most mundane object reveal their essence. They are good. The drain in the cellar connects the house to the entire world. Sitting down to supper changes everything. Each of us must eat. Each of us must face the last day of someone we love, and our own last day. Take a moment for Grace, for a few words that want to connect it all. Spirit and element, the days of our lives woven into a pattern so frustratingly complicated that we can’t tell its beginning from its end, but so simple that we discover it in one word – joy.
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Joseph Bathanti has written more than twenty books: poetry, novels, short stories. He served as North Carolina Poet Laureate from 2012-2014, has been inducted into the NC Literary Hall of Fame, and received the state’s highest civilian honor, the North Carolina Award in Literature. Every time he as arrived in Elkin to read at our public library, he begins his remarks, “It’s good to be back in the center of the universe.” I believe he carries that center with him everywhere he goes.
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Steady Daylight is available from LSU Press HERE
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Cherish the Light – Marilyn Hedgpeth
Posted in Imagery, tagged Alenda Lux, family, imagery, Marilyn Turner Hedgpeth, nature photography, NC Poets, poetry, Southern writing on June 5, 2026| 6 Comments »
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[ with 3 poems by Marilyn Hedgpeth ]
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The Cross and the Carpenter Bees
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They haul the worn wooden cross
from the depths of the church,
into the light of the sanctuary,
to make ready for its days
of Lenten pageantry, draped in purple.
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It’s oddly riddled with holes, I notice,
as if shot through, front and back,
which no one recalls from last year
when it was confined to the basement
soon after Easter.
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So, I stay watchful, keep my eyes open
while voicing prayers of penitence,
confessions of mortality,
while each person’s forehead is marked
with a dirty smudge of ash
as the organ drones.
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Amidst this solemn ritual,
one by one they begin to emerge:
hibernating carpenter bees
rising lazily like sleepers waking
from tombs bored deep
into the marrow of the wood,
to stretch cramped wings.
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Marilyn Turner Hedgpeth
from Alenda Lux, Warren Publishing, Charlotte NC; © 2026 by Ingram P. Hedgpeth
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Crows Playing in the Snow
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The first snowfall in 1,038 days,
barely a dusting, a sifting,
like powdered sugar on a cake.
The postman drives boldly, undeterred,
yet walks gingerly over crunchy grass,
carefully up slippery steps
to deliver a handful of cards,
catalogues, and holiday chachka.
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In a vacant lot down the way,
crows are playing in the snow.
Nose up, flaps down, they skid to a halt,
rattling as they touch down awkwardly,
black on white.
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An elderly driver ventures out slowly,
unable to discern between
salt, slag, and black ice.
He creeps and swerves,
brake lights casting red reflections.
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Meanwhile, crows are playing in the snow,
arching their mighty wings,
they laugh out loud as they make dark
snow angels with their shadows,
black on white.
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A passing car speeds up,
tossing its top-knot of snow,
blizzarding those in its wake.
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Nearby, crows are playing in the snow,
hopscotching on crows’ feet to create
hatched patterns on a blank canvas.
They caw to their friends
to come out and joint them.
I scramble to find my boots.
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Marilyn Turner Hedgpeth
from Alenda Lux, Warren Publishing, Charlotte NC; © 2026 by Ingram P. Hedgpeth
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Laughter Returns
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so surprising
it startles me
our small group playing handbells
flubs a simple song
known by heart since cradle roll
Jesus Loves Me, This I Know
suddenly unrecognizable
causing us all to laugh so hard
we almost drop our bells
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This last year
I had forgotten
the contagion of hearing others
chortle just over my shoulder
the catharsis of laughing off
blunders and clangers
the full-bodied posture
of knee-buckling joy
I had forgotten
before fear and grief
the music of communal happiness
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Marilyn Turner Hedgpeth
from Alenda Lux, Warren Publishing, Charlotte NC; © 2026 by Ingram P. Hedgpeth
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Last week a friend rang my doorbell to hand me this book, Alenda Lux, Latin for “cherish the light.” As he placed it in my hands, he told me the story of the poems and the poet, Marilyn, a dear family friend for decades, her sudden and unexpected death from an accident. He thought the poetry might speak some special message to me, but he confessed that it has been a hard year for him as well, not only this loss of a friend but also of family members and those he loved. A year of grief and sadness.
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And then for a minute my friend and I ponder together the book’s title. What light might we hope to discover here? Is there any promise that out of death we may draw some connection to life? Reading these lines, will we lament or rejoice?
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Marilyn had prepared this manuscript before her fatal accident in 2025, and her husband and children have insured that it be published in a beautiful volume, with evocative photography by Diana Greene. As a minister for twenty-four years, Marilyn Hedgpeth certainly must have sojourned in the realms of both hope and despair. Her poems do not feign ignorance of the darkness that can cloud the human soul, but they also never forsake the unceasing and unvanquishable light that desires to lift our spirits every hour, every day. Reading these poems, I am raised up. I am convinced there is a power larger than any pain of my own. Distant sometimes, but always drawing closer, I believe I hear the music of happiness.
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Marilyn Turner Hedgpeth published her first poetry collection, The Lightness of Reprieve, in 20224, and that same year published a collaboration with her writing group, White Fence. She earned a Master of Divinity from Columbia Theological Seminary in Decatur, Georgia and served as a Presbyterian Minister of Word and Sacrament for twenty-four years, seventeen of them at First Presbyterian Church in Durham, North Carolina. In her author’s notes accompanying the manuscript, she says the poems “coalesced from relationships past and present that have provided light (lux in Latin), strength, resilience, and hope to my life.” Her family, with the publication of the book, added a memoriam, including, “When we read these poems, we sense that Marilyn is still very present.” May it be so.
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And in the book’s title poem, Marilyn reveals that her father originally wished for her, his first-born, to be named Alenda Lux.
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Alenda Lux is available from Warren Publishing.
The Lightness of Reprieve is featured at Verse and Image HERE
The Lightness of Reprieve is featured at Verse and Image HERE
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